Would you try to save your relationship after receiving these messages?

Ignore Tara, she obviously thinks everything she does is right. You jumped to the wrong conclusion (and it appears to have happened before). Of course hes tired of it. No guy likes being accused of things he didnt do, and it does get old after awhile. If he talked to you so quickly, he still has feelings and was most likely just really angry at your actions. If you think you can keep the jumping to conclusions to a minimum, try again. Hes tallking to you so hes open to it. Get yourself in check first.